Looking Ahead

It can be hard to envision what your post-divorce life will look like, especially if you are in the middle of a heated case. A big part of how you look ahead has to do with how your case is handled, and what role your emotions play. Divorce brings about many changes; where there was once one family there are now two, the kids are now splitting their time between homes, and finding yourself newly single presents challenges regarding dating and your social life. Taking stock of where you want to be one, or two, or even twenty years after your divorce can help make the transition less frightening.

To get a handle on this important part of the divorce process, here are some tips on how you can reinvent yourself and be at peace with your new life:

●          Give yourself the time necessary to mourn the loss of your marriage.

●          Explore new hobbies or pick up an old one that was neglected while you                   were married.

●          Don’t be afraid to be alone.

●          Be cautious, but open to new relationships. Go at your own pace, and set               appropriate boundaries.

Setting goals will help you see the bigger picture, and put things in perspective while going through your divorce. Afterwards, when the dust has cleared, reaching certain milestones will give you a sense of accomplishment and help you to become emotionally whole again. Divorce is hard, but once you get past the initial shock of going through it, you can move forward happily and with confidence. Let us help you through this difficult time, so you can focus on getting to the life you want to live.

For more information about divorce, call us today. Let us put our experience to work for you. Call The Sampair Group in Phoenix and the West Valley today to schedule your appointment.