Life has a way of never staying the same. Just when you think you have hit your stride, an event might come along and derail you. Sometimes the event is minor, other times catastrophic. The way in which people deal with life’s little curveballs can determine the outcome of their relationships. Some of the changes may be positive, while others may be less so. And, there are those circumstances that at first glance seem to be negative, but upon taking a closer look are blessings in disguise.
While it is unfortunate that families split, and children are shuffled back and forth between parents, divorce does happen. Turning this event into a positive life moment, and learning from it depends on several factors. A good starting point is to determine the cause for the dissolution, and then take steps to ensure history is not repeated.
Common causes for divorce include:
- Financial struggles.
- Death or serious illness, either of a child or of your spouse.
- Failing to fully commit to the marriage.
- Ineffective communication, or too much fighting.
- Infidelity, either physically or emotionally.
- Getting married at a young age.
- Expecting your partner to change, or failing to compromise on issues that are important to both parties.
No one cause can be identified, and likely there are multiple reasons for why marriages end in divorce. Your case is unique to you, and the reason for your divorce will not be the same as in any other case. If you have exhausted all attempts at reconciliation, and still believe divorce is the answer, call our office. We can help to make the process less painful, and will work to make sure your interests are protected. Having a skilled family law attorney on your side works to ease the burden somewhat, and can give leave you with the feeling that your post-divorce life will be happy. Throughout the process we will keep you updated, and fully advised of the status.
For more information about the causes of divorce, call us today. Let us put our experience to work for you. Call The Sampair Group in Phoenix and the West Valley today to schedule your appointment.